By Chess McDoogle
The myth to premature ejaculation is that it only affects a small number of men. The reality is that it affects an enormous amount of men. Some studies show well over 50% of males suffer or have suffered from premature ejaculation. I wouldn’t be surprised if that percentage is much higher. The problem with statistics are that many men, perhaps most men, do not want to admit, let alone report, that they don’t last long enough during sex. They view it as not being man enough, but its very natural as a man not to be able to last long enough. Here’s some very important points in how to deal with this premature ejaculation phenomenon:
1. It’s the woman’s problem! One way to look at it is that it’s not the man’s fault, but rather it’s the woman’s fault for taking so long to reach climax! Women tend to take longer in doing things with everything else in life right? So this is perhaps just a natural extension of that phenomenon! Well, kidding aside, you can see that just because there are naturally different times that each sex reaches orgasm, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a “problem” for either sex. It’s just a situation that needs to be adjusted so that orgasm can be achieved at the same time.
2. Sorry, but the burden falls on the male to adjust the situation! In this case it’s up to the male to make the proper adjustments in order so that he can last longer, and not ejaculate “prematurely”. Since the male has the ability to learn techniques and develop himself to be a stronger, longer lasting lover, then it’s on him to take steps to adjust the situation, and learn how to last long during sex.
3. Techniques and Exercises will easily help the situation. Since this is a situation involving both partners, ideally it would be best if the female helped out the male in lasting longer. Together there are techniques and practice routines that can be performed that can easily and effectively transform the male into a long lasting lover. Or if the male wants to take it on himself, he can practice and learn techniques to last longer on his own. Either way it’s in the man’s court to learn ways to last longer and avoid premature ejaculation which affects so many men.
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